Thursday, October 7, 2010

10 Positive Signs Your Ex Wants You Back

In some break ups it's best to count your losses and move on. Other break ups though seem so pointless. You want your ex back and you are hoping the ex feels the same. Below are some sure signs your ex wants you back and is feeling the same way as you.

1. He shows up at places you used to go to as a couple. If he was truly over you, he would avoid these places at all costs.

2. His Facebook status has some not so up beat status comments. He may be quoting things of a more serious nature. If he is doing this, more than likely he is thinking about your lost relationship

3. He finds excuses to contact you. He saw something that reminded him of you or came across something he thought you would like etc.. This is a sign he doesn't want to let go and your ex wants you back.

4. Steers the conversation to your break up. Openly discusses the issue.

5. Stays in contact with your friends. Asks your friends questions about you and what you are up to.

6. Your ex wants you back if he is probing into who you are seeing, if you are dating.

7. If he starts taking a sudden interest in activities that interest you your ex wants you back. This is a sure sign your ex wants you back

8. He lingers on the phone or hangs around longer than needed in person

9. He talks about his personal accomplishments or ways he is improving. He is trying to impress you.

10. He still uses terms of endearment, like Baby, Honey, Sweetie, etc...

The above signs are not guaranteed. There is always a possibility that he may just want to keep you around for comforts sake or out of habit. If he is however, showing any of the above signs, there is hope.

Getting an ex back is tricky. You need to have a plan and not be winging this. It's important to know how the male mind processes a break up. It's also important that you not let your emotions rule you during this time. A level head and a good plan of action is crucial if you really want to get your ex back

Learn how men process a break up and how he thinks and put your plan in action before it's too late, before he moves on. For more break up advice and getting your ex back techniques click here.

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