My Ex Keeps Calling What on Earth is He Thinking

So he dumped you but now it seems he won't completely let you go. What is he doing, what on earth is he thinking? It could be a lot of things. We could speculate all day, but I will toss a few out there for you to ponder over. That's what we do when we are going through a break up. We rehash the crap over and over and drive ourselves nuts. We really can be our worst enemy with that projector that seems to never stop in our heads.

First he of course could just be keeping you on the back burner. He may be thinking if I can keep her on friendly terms, I might can get sex every once in a while when I strike out everywhere else. We don't like this thought one bit, but often times it's true. There they are the ones who wanted freedom, maybe to see if that ole grass was greener thing. They keep you around just in case it isn't greener. Guys really don't like to be alone. If this is why your ex keeps calling you, I suggest continue to not answer.

His ego could be another issue why your ex keeps calling. If you are in no contact and not answering his calls you are doing a number on that ego, trust me. He was the dumper, but decided he would call and low and behold you don't answer. What is going through his head? Has she already moved on? Is she already with another guy? Ouch! That really hurts so he keeps calling hoping you will help put a band aide on that pride.

Then there is the testing the waters thing. Maybe he really is sorry, maybe he does want you back. I suppose this does happen, at least I have heard it did. If you are thinking of going this route though, I strongly suggest you have a really good plan and don't just cave in with the first phone call. If this is what you want, prepare. For a good plan click here.

Last reason he may be calling is the exact reason he may have dumped you. He is a commitment phobic and just can't commit. So what this means is not only can he not commit to being in a relationship with you, now he can't commit to not being in a relationship with you. So what does he do? He tries to keep you at arms length. Don't let him. Get on with your life. Let him be.