It's scary, when you feel your boyfriend growing distant. You begin to worry is he going to break up with me. There are signs that he may in fact be losing that loving feeling.
1. You gut is your first sign. If you sense something is wrong and it persists for more than a couple of days, this is your very first sign. Listen to your gut, it's usually right.
2. His texting and calling become more infrequent. Maybe he used to text you every morning and he suddenly stops.
3. He is doing more and more with his buddies and doesn't include you.
4. He breaks dates. Says he is tired or stressed or some other excuse.
5. He is short when he does call. Maybe there are long moments of silence. He gets off the phone fast.
These are just a few signs and if you are seeing them, get prepared and find out how to win him back if he does leave. There are many things you could do if not prepared that will just push him further away. Becoming emotional and crying, calling and texting obsessively will not get him to stay.
Prevention is the key. Don't hold on tighter, it only makes him want to run faster.
1. You gut is your first sign. If you sense something is wrong and it persists for more than a couple of days, this is your very first sign. Listen to your gut, it's usually right.
2. His texting and calling become more infrequent. Maybe he used to text you every morning and he suddenly stops.
3. He is doing more and more with his buddies and doesn't include you.
4. He breaks dates. Says he is tired or stressed or some other excuse.
5. He is short when he does call. Maybe there are long moments of silence. He gets off the phone fast.
These are just a few signs and if you are seeing them, get prepared and find out how to win him back if he does leave. There are many things you could do if not prepared that will just push him further away. Becoming emotional and crying, calling and texting obsessively will not get him to stay.
Prevention is the key. Don't hold on tighter, it only makes him want to run faster.
This is so true. i had to learn it the hard way... fortunately, i learnt from my mistakes in all my previous relationships and was able to hold on one for the past 10 months but him and i could never "define the relationship". it was always heavy flirting but it stopped at that.. and now i made a huge mistake again by droppin the L word during a casual conversation. its been a week and he hasnt called me and neither do i have the guts to ask him why..just patiently waiting.. :(
ReplyDeletethis happened to me with my ex.. at the end of the day he came back but then i broke up with him because he decided that he wanted to ACT different .
ReplyDeleteSometimes and ex is an ex for a reason
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